Sligo Rovers boss John Russell admitted his side’s shock cup defeat to First Division side Kerry FC was ‘unforgivable’ after the Bit O’Red threw away a three goal lead to be dumped out of the Sports Direct Men’s FAI Cup at the quarter-final stage.

Owen Elding’s hat-trick had Russell’s men well on course for a first FAI Cup semi-final spot since 2020, with just 30 minutes left of the tie.

But an impressive Kerry, managed by Colin Healy, showed real grit and determination to force extra-time, and deservedly slow.

The hosts were by far the better team in the second-half, and Elding’s third was certainly against the run of play.

Cian Brosnan’s first goal on 66 minutes gave Kerry, in their first ever quarter-final, real belief that this tie was there for them.

Healy’s changes in the second-half were a help, with Daniel Okwute proving a real problem for the Rovers defence.

He won a penalty after he was clattered by Seb Quirk in the box, with Joe Adams making it 3-2 on 77 minutes.

It was all Kerry, and Rovers were desperately clinging on their narrow lead.

Then two minutes into added time at the end of the 90, Brosnan’s second forced extra-time, and it was nothing less than Kerry deserved.

Russell made changes of his own, but still they couldn’t contain Kerry, and Okwute found the winner with two minutes to go at the end of extra-time, amidst incredible scenes in Mounthawk Park.

But the manner of the defeat, at least from a Sligo Rovers perspective, will go down as one of the most embarrassing defeats in recent memory.

A stunned John Russell admitted he was ‘in a bit of shock’ afterwards, and was left reeling as his side ‘couldn’t manage the chaos’, with ‘horrendous defending’ leaving him furious.

“It’s unforgivable to be 3-0 up with 30 minutes left and the way the game transpired. The first goal is poor to give away, the second goal, there’s no need to commit the foul in the box. There’s no danger.

“You give momentum when it goes to 3-2. But even still, we didn’t weather that storm and you see the board going up. It’s the 90th minute. There’s four minutes added on. You just need to see the game out and you’re into the next round. And we don’t. It’s horrendous defending.

“It’s come across the six yard box and it’s a tap in. We just have to mark it. It’s schoolboy defending. I’m, to be honest, in a bit of shock. We played well in the first half, in complete control.

“In the second half, we didn’t start great, to get the goal and go 3-0 up. It’s unforgiveable to be knocked out of the tie after being in such a commanding lead. It goes to extra-time, we had chances, they had chances.

“The goal we’ve given away again is crazy. It’s so bad. I have to give credit to Kerry. They beat us. Good young players, they deserve to be in the semi-final, we didn’t manage the game.”

On paper, this is a game that Rovers should have won comfortably, and it was seen as being a favourable tie.

Russell warned all week about the threat that Kerry posed, particularly with Healy at the helm, but even still, few would have predicted this result, although those at Kerry would tell you they were quietly confident in the lead up.

But even still, at 3-0 down, it looked as though the game was dead and buried, and that’s probably the hardest pill for Russell to swallow.

“It’s a crazy result. Especially the way the game went. We were in complete control. We’ve thrown away an unbelievable opportunity to get to a cup final. I said that to he players in there. We are in good form, lads are training well, we’re 3-0 up, we’ve dominated the game, we put ourselves in a commanding position.

“Football’s crazy. We’ve seen that over the years at different levels. Tonight we couldn’t manage the chaos when the game swung on us. I came in after the game and I see that Shamrock Rovers won on penalties, we didn’t even get to penalties, last year Bohs went to extra-time and penalties as well, we just lost the run of it.

“We’ve missed a massive opportunity. I’m gutted for our supporters, gutted for the players and for the staff I have around me because I know everyone is working extremely hard. It’s a shocking result.”

But, why couldn’t Russell’s charges ‘manage the chaos’?

“I don’t understand it. It was just direct play and long balls, and Ollie (Denham) and Paddy (McClean) have been unbelievable for us, and Sean (Stewart) and Edwin (Agbaje), (Sam) Sargeant, they’ve built up a really good understanding.

“Those long balls up top, we just didn’t defend those moments well. The penalty as well, Seb doesn’t need to dive in. Defending the moments, being dialled in all the time, we spoke before the game, you can do all the talking it’s action on the pitch and we didn’t manage it.

“That one is going to sting for a long, long time. There’s no getting away from it. The importance of the game, what was at stake, and the position that we found ourselves in. In complete control for 60 minutes, moments of madness have cost us the game.”

On another night, the post match analysis would focus on 19-year-old Elding, who bagged a hat-trick on the night, although the third may well still go down as an own goal.

The much sought after Rovers attacker was visibly distraught at full-time on Friday, with his team-mates consoling him after the game had ended.

“He’s been amazing for us,” Russell added. “From minute one until the end, he ran his guts out for us. He got a hat-trick for us and he was devastated.

“The likes of Will Fitzgerald who was suspended tonight, we wanted to get to a semi-final for him. he’s devastated. Everyone is devastated. What an opportunity we’ve thrown away.

“It’s going to be a hard one to take because I know the group, it’s not that we played poorly, I’ve never experienced a game like it. It’s going to be a hard one to take.”

But Premier Division survival now becomes the sole focus for the remainder of the season, with a double game weekend next weekend when Rovers take on Drogheda United on Friday night before travelling to Galway the following Monday.

And Russell wants his players to use Friday’s shock as fuel for the remainder of the season.

“That’s the focus. We’ve missed the opportunity. It’s gone, it’s done. We have to move into next week. Full focus on the league. Seven games to go, we have to win as many as possible to get ourselves out of ninth.

“We can’t let the disappointment of tonight affect us for the next game, we’ve got to use it as fuel and try and get a win.”

Jessica Farry